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The future depends onwhat you do in the present
African American Couple

About Us

An idea whose time has come. Our early visions for The Gloaming were born over 19 years ago and grew quietly while we pursued careers in counseling and counselor education. Listening to synchronicity and observing what the world needs, we decided now is the time to create the space for healing and thriving in our world. With over 30 years of counseling and teaching experience between us, we hope to facilitate transformation by providing holistic counseling, personal and organizational consultation.


Elaine Casquarelli, M.Ed., Ed.S., LMHC
Professional Counselor 
(NM Lic. #0168171)

Since earning my mental health counseling degree in 2000, I have worked as a professional counselor and instructor, helping adults who seek relief from emotional pain.  I have also worked with people who are experiencing difficult transitions in their life, relationship problems, and difficulties achieving their life goals.  If you struggle with any of these concerns and are ready to engage in activities that will lead to relief and/or healing, I invite you to contact me for an initial consultation.


Dr. Kathleen "Kitty" Fallon

Effective January 25, 2018, Dr. Kitty Fallon is retiring indefinitely as a life coach to focus on her health. She will continue with her current clients but will not accept new clients. She will continue co-facilitating with Elaine The Gloaming's community service support groups for caregivers of loved ones with Alzheimer's or dementia and for those living with cognitive decline.

You can also stay connected online through her Facebook group Creating Your Thriving Life - www.facebook.com/groups/createyourthrivinglife.

You can email her at [email protected] or give her a call at 505-490-7059 if you want to connect!